you’re kidding me…

ugh…

they know I don’t have a car…

they know I have anxiety, PTSD, hearing issues…

they refer me to a job agency I would have to walk a good hour to get to AFTER taking a bus for a whole hour… by a busy highway… no sidewalks…

what is wrong with people?  Don’t they *get it*?

Since one of my biggest challenges since taking back my freedom has been boundaries and self-care, here’s one for the masses…

makes up for the smaller moments…

I categorically refuse to go to that one… find me one closer, one I can get to… yes I want a flippin job but NOT at THAT kind of cost to my well-being.

This is what happens often when you ask for help to try and get services…

I am NOT happy with the services I am supposed to be getting…

they take nothing in consideration about invisible wounds despite seeing the diagnosis…

You bet I am upset…

this feels like they think it’s a joke…

not at my expense thank you very much

edit: I am glad I stood up for myself and brought it up to them tactfully, pointing out the issues and asking why they would refer me to a place so difficult to get to and mentioning my horrible experience this brought back… They have offered me a solution to the issue and everything will be just fine. Phew.

A video everyone should see

this came up on my news feed and I thought it might be important to share this.  It can be triggering for those of us having gone through it… it’s very emotional, but worth every second of it.

If My Wounds Were Visible

I would like to thanks French Creek Films and all of the people appearing in the video.  I’ve brought up some of those things to my counselor, I think most of us have.  It’s nice that it has become a public video/voice for all to hear it. ❤

5 Narcissistic Myths

Good to know

Knowing the Narcissist

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I always read views propounded about me and my kind, with considerable interest. I see many intelligent and well-reasoned observations about what we do and why we do it. Many carry considerable force. Other views are purely driven by the understandable anger and hurt that is engendered in people by us, although as I have repeatedly sought to explain, when one operates through emotion, poor decisions are made and the clear picture is not observed. I also come across comments which are made about us which are inaccurate. I am not referring to the disagreement one might have in terms of an ad hominem attack against us. Many people consider us to be arseholes and bastards. I understand that viewpoint, many of my kind would disagree, but it is not that kind of value judgement that makes its way to becoming a myth about us. There are other more…

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WNAAD – No Good Advice

so true…

Knowing the Narcissist

no-good-adviceToday is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day (“WNAAD”) and in tandem with this awareness day, I have selected a series of articles which go to the issue of awareness, in terms of your own but more importantly to those who have yet to find insight and understanding. It is through YOU that you can direct people to this insight and understanding through YOUR sharing of my work. You have the capacity to assist others to seize the power. NOW is your opportunity to capitalise on this day’s impact by sharing, disseminating and spreading awareness.

Relationship advice. The internet is awash with it. Sites, blogs, question and answer sessions, videos on YouTube there is a plethora of advice about how to deal with the problems which arise in intimate relationships.

I decided recently to have a good look through many of these sites and gather together the common complaints which people…

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WNAAD – The Coterie

let’s be aware.. let’s learn and let’s teach

Knowing the Narcissist

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Today is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day (“WNAAD”) and in tandem with this awareness day, I have selected a series of articles which go to the issue of awareness, in terms of your own but more importantly to those who have yet to find insight and understanding. It is through YOU that you can direct people to this insight and understanding through YOUR sharing of my work. You have the capacity to assist others to seize the power. NOW is your opportunity to capitalise on this day’s impact by sharing, disseminating and spreading awareness.

A coterie is a group of people with shared interests. In this case, that shared interest is our kind. We have two groups of supporters; Lieutenants and the Coterie. The Lieutenants are our most loyal supporters, they are dedicated and are manipulated, usually on the premise of reward although sometimes with the prospect of punishment, to…

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WNAAD – March of the Lovefrauds

Knowing the Narcissist

the-march-of-the-lovefraudsToday is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day (“WNAAD”) and in tandem with this awareness day, I have selected a series of articles which go to the issue of awareness, in terms of your own but more importantly to those who have yet to find insight and understanding. It is through YOU that you can direct people to this insight and understanding through YOUR sharing of my work. You have the capacity to assist others to seize the power. NOW is your opportunity to capitalise on this day’s impact by sharing, disseminating and spreading awareness.

You died the moment you met me.

My kind are engaged in wholesale slaughter. A daily massacre. Nobody is stopping us either.

These massacres are not literal deaths. No, they way I leave you I believe that you may actually prefer to be dead in order to end the pain. The unrelenting pain and misery that…

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