and… the legal courtroom harassment has indeed begun… :/

i’m struggling to move on, to hold on with both hands as I wait until my papers come in… lots of steps involved… my case is moving forward slowly… very very slowly…

got a letter yesterday in the mail…

He’s dragging me to court over a stupid, invalid reason… by this I mean if you think about my situation, look at the reason he stated… yeah he’s entitled to know… so… why doesn’t anyone figure out that it’s already something they all know???   what’s the point other then monumental waste of everyone’s time & obviously he’s fishing to find out where I live…

stalking & intimidation isn’t going to be tolerated.  You humiliated me enough, you’ve bullied me enough.  I’m not going to let you anymore.

why can’t you just stop bugging me & move on like I’m trying to do?  I’ve never been anything more then an ego boost & a scapegoat to you.  Is it because I’m taking my life back?  Is it because our child decided not to replace me as those things in your eyes & came with me that you’re after me? or because you didn’t think I’d be truly out of your reach?

I’m going to ask the court some very interesting questions on that day.

after I made it clear to him & his mother that I want absolutely no contact with him, her, their family, friends, acquaintances in any way shape or form.

I’m wondering why courts let spouses do this…  they drag you to court over & over for stuff that shouldn’t even be an issue.  To stir up drama, to keep some control over you, to make you miserable for leaving them & their abuse/torment… so they dish out more torment… via the legal system & loopholes, even if without cause or true base.

I thought wasting the court’s time is against the law… I’ll have to ask that when i’m there…

LEAVE ME THE F*** BE

I have the right to not be harassed by you, even if you elect to use the legal system to do it to avoid going to jail.  Our kid makes their on choices at 17 to either talk to you or not. LEAVE ME OUT OF IT.

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